{"id":4773,"date":"2026-08-25T05:39:02","date_gmt":"2026-08-25T05:39:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/?p=4773"},"modified":"2026-08-25T05:39:04","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T05:39:04","slug":"my-ex-dumped-me-for-my-best-friend-because-i-was-too-fat-on-his-wedding-day-karma-took-care-of-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/?p=4773","title":{"rendered":"My ex dumped me for my best friend because I was &#8220;too fat&#8221; \u2013 On his wedding day, karma took care of everything"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"508\" src=\"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-270-1024x508.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4788\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-270-1024x508.png 1024w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-270-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-270-767x380.png 767w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-270.png 1289w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was always the &#8220;fat girlfriend&#8221; until my boyfriend dumped me for my best friend, and six months later, on the day they were supposed to get married, I discovered how wrong he was about me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was the &#8220;fat girlfriend&#8221; that my ex dumped for my best friend; then, on his wedding day, his mother called me and said, &#8220;You don&#8217;t want to miss this.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m Larkin, 28 years old, and I&#8217;ve always been &#8220;the big girl&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I learned to be easy to love.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not cute-thick. Just&#8230; big.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The one relatives corner at Thanksgiving to whisper about sugar. The one strangers tell, &#8220;You&#8217;d look so pretty if you lost a little weight.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I learned to be easy to love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fun, helpful, reliable. The friend who arrives early to help prepare, stays late to clean, and remembers everyone&#8217;s coffee order. If she couldn&#8217;t be the most beautiful, she&#8217;d certainly be the most helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He asked for my number before the night was over.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s how I met Sayer (31 years old) on trivia night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He was with coworkers; I was with my friend Abby (27). My team won, he joked about me &#8220;leading the table,&#8221; and I made fun of his neatly trimmed beard. He asked for my number before the night was over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He sent me a message first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You&#8217;re refreshing,&#8221; she wrote. &#8220;You&#8217;re not like other girls. You&#8217;re authentic.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We dated for almost three years.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A warning sign in hindsight. At that moment, I melted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We dated for almost three years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We shared Netflix accounts, weekends away, toothbrushes at each other&#8217;s houses. We talked about moving in together, getting a dog, having kids &#8220;someday.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My best friend, Maren (28), was part of that life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You deserve someone who will never make you feel like an afterthought.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We&#8217;d been friends since college. She&#8217;s petite, blonde, naturally slim, and her &#8220;I forgot to eat today&#8221; routine makes people roll their eyes and love her anyway. She held my hand at my father&#8217;s funeral. She&#8217;d spend nights on my couch when my anxiety was bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He used to tell me, &#8220;You deserve someone who will never make you feel like an afterthought.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Six months ago, that same girl was in my bed with my boyfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Literally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His hand on her hip. Her hair on my pillow.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was at work when my iPad lit up with a shared photo notification. Sayer and I had synced our devices because we were cute and stupid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I played without thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was my bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My gray duvet. My yellow cushion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sayer and Maren in the middle. Shirtless. Laughing. His hand on her hip. Her hair on my pillow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Are you OK?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a second, my brain tried to convince me that it was old or fake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then my stomach turned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I have to go,&#8221; I told Abby, grabbing my purse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Are you okay?&#8221; she asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No,&#8221; I said, and I left.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Is there something you want to tell me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I sat on the sofa with the photo open and waited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Sayer came in, he was humming. He threw the keys into the bowl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Hey, baby, you&#8217;re home now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Is there something you want to tell me?&#8221; I asked him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He stood motionless, looked at the iPad, and at that moment, I saw the guilt reflected on his face and&#8230; vanish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t mean for you to find out like this.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He did not deny it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He wasn&#8217;t scared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She just sighed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t mean for you to find out like this,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, &#8220;I didn&#8217;t want to do this.&#8221; Just&#8230; like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s more my type.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maren came out of the hallway behind him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bare legs. My oversized sweatshirt. My friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I trusted you,&#8221; I told him. My voice sounded strangely calm. &#8220;Both of us.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He moved, as if it were a negotiation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She&#8217;s more my type,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Maren is thin. She&#8217;s pretty. That matters.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;But you don&#8217;t take care of yourself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The room buzzed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He continued.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You&#8217;re great, Larkin. You really are. You have a very good heart,&#8221; she said. &#8220;But you don&#8217;t take care of yourself. I deserve someone who&#8217;s my equal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That was the phrase that really did it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I gave him a trash bag for his things.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At my height.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As if I were the wrong shoes for his suit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maren didn&#8217;t say a word. Not one. She just crossed her arms, her eyes shining, and let him talk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I gave him a trash bag for his things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I told him to leave the key on the counter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After three months, they were engaged.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then I sat down on the kitchen floor and felt like everything was collapsing inwards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Within a few weeks, they were posting photos of themselves as a couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After three months, they were engaged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People were sending me screenshots. I muted half of my contacts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abby offered to help me puncture her tires. I laughed, cried, and said no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I couldn&#8217;t stand being in my body with that voice in my head.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, I turned all the hatred inward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She just said what everyone&#8217;s thinking, I told myself.&nbsp;<em>You&#8217;re great, but. You&#8217;re funny, but. If you really wanted it, you would have lost weight.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I couldn&#8217;t stand being in my body with that voice in my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I started changing the only thing I could control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Little by little, I walked further.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I signed up at Abby&#8217;s gym.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first day, I lasted eight minutes on the treadmill before my lungs started burning. I pretended I had to pee, hid in the bathroom, and cried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the second day, I returned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Little by little, I walked more. I ran. I lifted light weights. I watched exercise videos on YouTube in the car so I wouldn&#8217;t look stupid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I cut down on takeout. I learned to grill vegetables without burning them. I obsessively tracked my food. I drank more water.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then my face looked clearer in the mirror.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For weeks, nothing seemed different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then my jeans loosened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then my face looked clearer in the mirror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then someone from work said to me, &#8220;You look great. Did you get something done?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Six months later, she had lost a lot of weight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I felt both good and creepy.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Enough to make people who hadn&#8217;t seen me in a long time do a double take. Enough for my aunt to pull me aside and whisper, &#8220;I knew you had it inside,&#8221; as if I&#8217;d passed a secret test.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They paid more attention to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">More hugs at the door, more smiles, more &#8220;Wow, you look amazing.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I felt both good and creepy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then came their wedding.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inside, I still felt like the girl who had been dumped for her thinner best friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then came their wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I knew the date from social media. Mutual friends posted, &#8220;Can&#8217;t wait!&#8221; with ring emojis. I muted more people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obviously, I wasn&#8217;t invited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My plan: phone on silent, takeout, trashy TV shows, bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Shall I speak to Larkin?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At 10:17, my phone rang anyway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unknown number.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I answered out of habit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Hello?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Am I speaking to Larkin?&#8221; a woman asked in a tense voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You have to come here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Yeah&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I am Sayer&#8217;s mother.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mrs. Whitlock. Perfect hair, perfect pearls, perfect passive-aggressive comments about how &#8220;we girls&#8221; stuck to salad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My stomach dropped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What&#8217;s going on?&#8221; I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Come. Please.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You have to come here,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Right now. To the Lakeview Country Club. Please. You won&#8217;t believe what happened.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Is Sayer okay?&#8221; I asked him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Fine,&#8221; he snapped. &#8220;Come on. Please.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I should have said no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, I took the keys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Except that the parking was a mess.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The country club was 40 minutes away, with manicured lawns and tasteful signs that read &#8220;Whitlock Wedding&#8221; with arrows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Except that the parking was a mess.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cars were half on the grass. Dressed and suited people were gathered outside, whispering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inside, the reception hall looked wrecked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chairs overturned. A tablecloth hung crooked. A centerpiece was smashed, with petals and crystals scattered on the floor. Champagne spilled in sticky stains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her hairstyle was coming undone.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It wasn&#8217;t an accident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Larkin!&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mrs. Whitlock hurried over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her hairstyle was coming undone. Strands of mascara. She held my hands like I was in an ambulance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Thank God you came,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She was never serious with him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What happened?&#8221; I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He approached me and lowered his voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That girl,&#8221; he hissed. &#8220;Maren. She was never serious with him.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I blinked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;One of her bridesmaids, Ellie, came to see me this morning. She was in tears. She showed me messages. Screenshots.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She seemed almost pleased despite her indignation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He confronted her.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Maren has been seeing another man,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Laughing with him about how easy Sayer is. About how &#8216;he&#8217;d enjoy the ring and see how long he could handle it.'&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My stomach churned. Again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Did Sayer see them?&#8221; I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He confronted her,&#8221; he said. &#8220;She called him boring, said she didn&#8217;t want to tie herself down &#8216;to a man with a mother like his,&#8217; and left. With her dress on.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;So the wedding is cancelled.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I imagined it and, against my will, I let out a small huff.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mrs. Whitlock shook my hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;We can&#8217;t let this ruin him,&#8221; he said. &#8220;There are people here. His family. His boss. Canceling him would be humiliating.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;So the wedding is canceled,&#8221; I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;For now,&#8221; she said. &#8220;But it doesn&#8217;t have to be a disaster.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Larkin, you always wanted it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He stepped back to look me up and down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her eyes lit up with something that gave me goosebumps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Larkin, you always loved him,&#8221; she said. &#8220;You were loyal. Good to him. And look at you now: you&#8217;re beautiful. 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