{"id":4774,"date":"2026-08-25T05:39:39","date_gmt":"2026-08-25T05:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/?p=4774"},"modified":"2026-08-25T05:39:39","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T05:39:39","slug":"i-got-a-tattoo-of-my-granddaughters-drawing-on-my-arm-then-my-husband-stopped-talking-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/?p=4774","title":{"rendered":"I got a tattoo of my granddaughter&#8217;s drawing on my arm \u2013 Then my husband stopped talking to me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"528\" src=\"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-271-1024x528.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4789\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-271-1024x528.png 1024w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-271-300x155.png 300w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-271-767x396.png 767w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-271-440x226.png 440w, https:\/\/dailynewus.top\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/image-271.png 1277w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I thought turning my granddaughter&#8217;s little drawing into a lasting memento of her love would be one of the most beautiful decisions I&#8217;d ever made. However, as soon as my husband saw it, his reaction was so harsh and personal that I started wondering what else was really behind his anger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When my six-year-old granddaughter, Natalie, handed me a drawing that said &#8220;I LOVE YOU, NANA&#8221; at the top, I almost burst into tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It wasn&#8217;t anything elaborate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The letters were crooked, the colors went outside the lines, and in the little drawing where we both appeared, our arms were too long for our bodies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She had drawn herself next to me, both of us smiling under a huge yellow sun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To anyone else, it probably looked like just another child&#8217;s drawing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For me, he was everything.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My childhood wasn&#8217;t exactly easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was a lack of affection in my home, and there were years when I wondered what it would be like to live in a place where I felt safe and secure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a child, I imagined that when I grew up, I would have a family where people hugged each other, said &#8220;I love you,&#8221; and meant it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Standing there, holding Natalie&#8217;s drawing in my hands, I realized that I had something I had longed for almost my entire life: a family that loved me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Do you like it, Nana?&#8221; he asked me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I love it,&#8221; I said, hugging her tightly. &#8220;I&#8217;m going to keep it forever.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Forever, forever?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Forever, forever.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She giggled and hugged me tighter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That night, after he went home, I kept looking at the drawing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rob, my husband, was sitting next to me when I said, &#8220;Do you know what I&#8217;m thinking?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He glanced at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I think I might get it tattooed on my arm.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I expected her to laugh, to ask me if I was serious, or at least to look at the photo again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, he barely reacted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I even showed him where I planned to put it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Right here,&#8221; I explained, touching my arm. &#8220;Not very big. Just your drawing and the words.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rob gave me no indication that he was bothered, so I interpreted his silence as indifference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few days later, I went to a tattoo studio.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was nervous because I had never done anything like this before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I must have looked at the drawing about 20 times while the tattoo artist was getting everything ready.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Is this your granddaughter&#8217;s drawing?&#8221; he asked me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Yeah&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;How beautiful&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He did it just for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When they finished the tattoo, I stared at my arm and felt strangely excited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There it was: Natalie&#8217;s little drawing, her imperfect letters, and the words &#8220;I LOVE YOU, NANA&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Natalie saw him, her reaction made every second of awkwardness worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;NANA!&#8221;, she shouted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He grabbed my arm, although I immediately reminded him to be careful because the tattoo was still fresh.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That&#8217;s my drawing!&#8221; she squealed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Absolutely.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You drew my picture!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I told you I would keep it forever.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His eyes widened in shock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Forever, forever!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Forever, forever,&#8221; I repeated.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She looked so proud that I almost burst into tears again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She even said that she was now a &#8220;real artist&#8221; because someone had gotten a tattoo of one of her works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I went home feeling wonderful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Rob saw my arm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His expression changed instantly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What the hell is that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At first, I thought he was joking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;The tattoo,&#8221; I replied. &#8220;I already told you I was going to get it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Did you really do it?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Yes. You knew I was thinking about it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t think you&#8217;d do something so stupid.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The joy with which she had entered through the door vanished.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Sorry?&#8221;.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Tattoos are in bad taste, Betty.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It&#8217;s a drawing by our granddaughter.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t care what it is. You&#8217;ve ruined your body.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I laughed, but it wasn&#8217;t funny at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Ruined my body? Rob, it&#8217;s just a small tattoo on my arm.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You should have consulted me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Yes, I told you so!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No, you just threw out a ridiculous idea and then you left and did whatever you wanted.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You didn&#8217;t say anything!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t have to do it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s when the discussion turned ugly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I reminded her that I was an adult and that I didn&#8217;t need permission to make decisions about my own body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rob insisted that, since we were married, I should have taken into account how he would feel.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then, he told me the one thing I couldn&#8217;t get out of my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You no longer attract me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was completely paralyzed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You heard me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Are you saying that because of a small tattoo you&#8217;re no longer attracted to your wife?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It&#8217;s not just the tattoo. It&#8217;s what it says about you.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What exactly does it say about me?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That you don&#8217;t care what I think.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I looked down at the crooked letters on my arm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How had something so innocent turned into this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Do you want to know what I think?&#8221; Rob continued. &#8220;I think you should take it off.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No way&#8221;.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Well, don&#8217;t expect me to pretend I like it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I never asked you to like it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No, Betty. You just expect me to accept everything you do.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And with that, he left.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During the following days, our house remained in a painful silence and I began to question myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Part of me wondered if it would be easier to remove the tattoo.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I hated fighting with Rob, and I certainly didn&#8217;t want a cartoon to destroy my marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then I imagined Natalie realizing that I was gone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I could already hear her asking, &#8220;Nana, where is my drawing?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What was I supposed to say to her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Did Grandpa think his drawing made Nana look like a loose woman?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Did Grandpa think Nana had ruined her body?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Removing it felt like breaking the promise I had made to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even so, Rob&#8217;s reaction seemed too extreme to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We had disagreements before about money, family, and all those normal things that couples argue about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally, I called his brother, Dean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dean and I had always gotten along well, and I was one of the few people who could tell Rob he was being unreasonable without it immediately triggering another argument.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I need some advice about marriage,&#8221; I confessed to him.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That sounds serious.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It is&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I told him about the tattoo and Rob&#8217;s reaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a few seconds, Dean said nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Dean?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He exhaled slowly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Betty, there&#8217;s something I think you need to know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Something in her voice made me feel a knot in my stomach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry. I should have told you sooner, but Rob said he&#8217;d explain everything himself. I thought that way I was giving my brother a chance to do the right thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What are you going to tell me?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was another silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Oh, Betty,&#8221; he said softly. &#8220;I&#8217;m really sorry. But this has nothing to do with your tattoo.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I gripped the phone tighter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;So, what&#8217;s it about?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Don&#8217;t you know what Natalie told him?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natalie was the sweetest girl I knew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I would never say anything that could destroy my marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At least, that&#8217;s what I thought.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No&#8230; What did he say to her?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dean hesitated again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t know how to tell you without hurting you.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Dean, please.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her voice softened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;A few weeks ago, Natalie saw Rob with another woman.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was breathless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What do you mean by &#8216;with another woman&#8217;?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry, Betty. She saw him kissing her.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For a moment, I couldn&#8217;t say anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then Dean added, carefully: &#8220;Natalie called her &#8216;the butterfly tattoo girl&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What lady?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dean explained to me that Natalie had been with Rob a few weeks earlier, while I was away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I already knew about that departure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rob had said he was going to take her for ice cream and then they would go see someone about a piece of furniture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I had never asked him anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apparently, Natalie had seen a woman with a butterfly tattoo near her shoulder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And most importantly: she had seen Rob kiss her.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rob hadn&#8217;t realized that Natalie had noticed until later, when she innocently asked him about &#8220;the butterfly girl&#8221; and mentioned that she had seen them kissing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Who is it?&#8221; I whispered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dean remained silent for a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I think you know her.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Dean, tell me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Claire&#8221;.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I knew Claire, although not very well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rob had known her for years and referred to her in passing as an old friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Are you telling me that Rob is cheating on me with Claire?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t know exactly what&#8217;s going on between them,&#8221; Dean replied quickly. &#8220;I wasn&#8217;t there, and I don&#8217;t want to pretend I know more than I do. I only know what Natalie saw and what Rob told me afterward.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Did Rob tell you?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He called me after Natalie mentioned the kiss.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Before you got the tattoo.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Suddenly, the pieces started to fall into place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;He knew,&#8221; I murmured. &#8220;He knew Natalie had noticed before I got the tattoo.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Yeah&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Why didn&#8217;t you tell me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry, Betty. I should have told you. Rob told me there was an innocent explanation and promised he&#8217;d talk to you. I didn&#8217;t think it was my place to get involved before he had that chance.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;What now?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Now he&#8217;s blaming you for a tattoo instead of telling you the truth. 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But as soon as you saw my tattoo, suddenly tattoos became something tacky and you weren&#8217;t attracted to them anymore.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;You&#8217;re twisting everything.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;No. You were afraid.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Afraid of what?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;That Natalie started talking about tattoos again.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">His expression changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And suddenly, I understood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wasn&#8217;t looking at my tattoo and thinking about myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was thinking about Claire&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natalie had already associated Claire with the butterfly she had on her shoulder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every time I saw my tattoo, there was a possibility that tattoos would come up again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was a possibility that he would mention &#8220;the butterfly girl&#8221; 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